Fear of making a choice....

I was going through vishal bhaiya's blog(my art of living teacher)..http://vishalmerani.blogspot.com/and read something about intelligence[crookedness] and innocense...
putting it in different words,in a way i look at it....
often in life,we find ourselves in great complications..confusions ,deli ma all hover around from all over.we don't get any way out and end up in tears and depressed souls...why these complications arise..why is it that we are not able to make things simpler...
its just because we try to make them simpler...or it's like we think it will be simpler this way while it turns out to be the other way...
the only thing that lies behind is this fear....
1.fear of choosing ourselves....[what if i choose my happiness..what if i do this or that...hey i want to do this..i feel its good for me..i will be happier this way but what will happen to those who are concerned with me...is it right and ethical to do so..what will others think..what are the possibilities that we will not hurt anyone..]
we often face this situation where we find it difficult to choose ourselves....i m not talking about the sacrifices..they are part of life..we often dont get what we want.we should be happy and move ahead..what i m talking about is something that we can have..something which is so close to us and still we let it go due to this fear....
2.fear of not choosing ourselves..[what will happen to me..mera kya hoga..what about my happines. ..i will do this or that but will i be happy doing this..]
this is the fear that keep us close to the thing we really want to be with or want in our lives...
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here starts the complications..we have to make some choice at last...because not only us but people concerned with us also go through the same...and our decisions effect their lives too..these complications will not arise if we make these decisions ...or choices....
very few are those who willingly without any fear or pressure choose ,not choosing themselves...just for sake of others happiness...and for those some people if we not choose ourselves,we just throw this fear out of us then world will surely be a better place to live...
that's innocence....
intelligence has become crookedness these days....if these innocent people use their intelligence..,yes world will be a great place to live in....
some acts are out of intelligence...some are out of innocence..
innocent are always used and exploited by intelligents..
there is lot of intelligence in the world..what we need is innocense..
keep the faith strong..there will be no stopping...innocence will give you lots of smiles at last..
so innocents must use their intelligence:):)